Joy
or sorrow. Happy or sad. Those seem to be the stance that most people
take as they look at the people around them, but what I want to draw out
attention to today is the fact that God is the one who ought to set our
feelings as well as our faith.
Too
often we allow others to determine how we feel about ourselves and about
life. Take this a step further and
notice that when we are not feeling good that taking our feelings out on others
through our words or our actions is not a good thing. When we aren’t happy with ourselves, it is
easy to let that determine how we treat others.
1 Samuel 16:7 NLT
… The Lord
doesn’t see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the
Lord looks at the heart.”
Jesus told us that some people will try to remove a small sin
from another person’s life before removing the big sin from their own
life. That’s a bad deal. By focusing on others we are drawn away from
looking at ourselves. God’s desire is to
change our heart and not our habits. His
love for us changes us from the inside out.
We have to be so careful that we check our motives and the
reason why we judge or treat others in certain ways. Do we try to look good to others when we
simply don’t like ourselves at that point.
Matthew 23:26 NLT
You blind
Pharisee! First wash the inside of the cup and the dish, and
then the outside will become
clean, too.
The mask that we wear and masking our feelings doesn’t help
our faith at all. Jesus said that we are
fake when we don’t start with the inside.
What I believe Jesus meant by this, at least a part of it, is that how
we look at others is dictated by the way we thin about ourselves. Often our thinking is wrong, twisted, messed
up and selfish.
Luke 6:37 NLT
Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn others, or it will all come back
against you. Forgive others, and you will be forgiven.
By forgiving and accepting others we begin to look more and
more like Jesus. When we accept others,
we begin to get honest about and accept ourselves.
It bothers me greatly when I see people, even myself,
treating others poorly because of the pain that is in their lives, in their
mind and deep in their heart. What I see
is not what God sees. Therefore it is
time to live by faith and love people the way God loves them.
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