You can pick your
friends. Can you really?
We do pick the people who
are closest to us, but along the way there are people we grow close to that
encourage us and make our lives much better.
I am so grateful for the people that God puts in my life.
Proverbs 18:24 NLT
There are “friends” who destroy each
other, but a real friend sticks closer
than a brother.
Let me tell you about a few
of the people who make me better. No, I
will not call them by name, and there is not room here, or almost anywhere, no
enough time to tell you about the many, many people who I call friend that I
cherish. But a few of them that come to
mind I will share about.
There’s a guy I have been
doing ministry with for well over 10 years.
We don’t see each other but maybe a couple times a month. Yet this man’s integrity and huge heart make
him one of the people that I respect and call on for wisdom on a regular
basis. His faith and his loyalty to God
and to His friends is inspiring.
Another friend that sticks
out to me is one I served near for several years but only got to know the last
couple of years. This dude works harder
than most of the pastors I know. He’s
bi-vocational which means he is a pastor and works a full time job. His heart is as big as I have ever seen, and
he loves people and stays close to God’s word.
I see this guys every few months.
He inspires me big time.
In our town there is a lady
I met several years ago that doesn’t attend our church, but she loves to
serve. We love some of the same books
and writers, and it is amazing to talk about what we learn from reading. But what is even more amazing is how I have
watched this lady and her family serve.
I love her heart for hurting people.
Her heart is similar to my heart for those who live in poverty. She encourages me to do more.
Romans 15:2 NLT
We should help others do what is right
and build them up in the Lord.
There is a guy in our church that I used to spend a good deal of time,
but we don’t get to see each other much any more. But when I do see him at church or run in to
him in town there are words of wisdom and love flowing from him that makes me
proud to be his pastor and his friend.
Through the years I have worked and served with some incredible
people. The best of friends may not be
the ones who you see the most. This
person lives a long way off, but every time we talk I learn so much. Their wisdom and love for people makes me
want to dig my feet in and do so much more.
When we worked together, it was incredible what we could accomplish. Now I love hearing how God is using them to
accomplish more than we ever did together.
I’m encouraged, inspired and so much more plus miss them and their
family very much.
Jude 1:20 NLT
But you, dear friends, must build each other up in your most holy faith, pray in
the power of the Holy Spirit,
Some of those friends who encourage us the most share some of the same
DNA or maybe a marriage license. My wife
inspires me to be a better man, a stronger pastor and a great father and
husband. My dad and my brother inspire
me more as I get older. Just hearing
their voice or sharing what’s going on in our lives from time to time helps me
do more and be more confident.
We all need friends. And like I
said before I could tell you about more people in my life, but these are just a
few that I cherish in my life who make me better. In fact in the last few weeks working with
our winter / warming shelter I have met many more incredible people that
encourage me. I cannot wait to see who
else God brings my direction and how we, working together and inspiring each,
together make a bigger impact on this world because we chose to be part of God’s
church.
Friends are important. Life is
meant to be shared. That makes us
better!
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