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be careful what you say


Proverbs 13:3-5  GNT

Be careful what you say and protect your life. A careless talker destroys himself.

I don’t agree with everyone.  I am sure you don’t either.  You might even be surprised to know that there are some people that I don’t like, but that is simply because I am human and not perfect.

God tells me that I need to love and accept people like He loves and accepts me.  That is an important part of how we are to live life and how we are to interact with others.

Over the past week I have been touched by the pain of the people who are suffering from the impact of Hurricane Harvey.  Within this week has been much said, mostly on social media, about Joel Osteen and the church he is pastor of in Houston, Texas.  Let me say that I don’t agree with all that Pastor Osteen shares, and I am sure we would have plenty of disagreements about theology and even in ministry or church practices.

What I do want you to hear and understand is that it is my desire to be very careful what I say about others.  I am not perfect.  I have a big mouth.  I am opinionated.  But it is my heart and my desire to talk less about people involved in ministry even if I don’t agree with them.

There are several reasons why I feel this way.  I do understand that we are all entitled to our opinion and to the right to share our opinion.  Sharing with you today is a piece of my heart that I desire to be very careful what I say about another child of God.  Even if I disagree or dislike that person I choose to be careful.  Furthermore, many times I have shared my opinion about ministries and ministers that I do not personally know.  When we state an opinion, often we don’t have all the details.  Does that make sense?

Please understand that this applies not just to a pastor but to anyone.  It even applies to the President of our country and what you or I say about him.

Here is where the rubber hits the road: simply be careful what you say about others.  Without all the details, without first hand knowledge, without being perfect, be careful.  Our words ought to be ones of courage and encouragement.

I am not judging you or me or the ones we have talked about.  It is a high calling to issue grace to others, to treat people with mercy, kindness and the grace God has treated us with.  May our words lead others to find God and to see the good in people and to challenge each of us to step higher and serve more.

I close with a passage of Scripture that we need to consider.

Matthew 7:1-6  NLT
Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. For you will be treated as you treat others.  The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged. “And why worry about a speck in your friend’s eye when you have a log in your own? How can you think of saying to your friend,  ‘Let me help you get rid of that speck in your eye,’ when you can’t see past the log in your own eye? Hypocrite! First get rid of the log in your own eye; then you will see well enough to deal with the speck in your friend’s eye. “Don’t waste what is holy on people who are unholy. Don’t throw your pearls to pigs! They will trample the pearls, then turn and attack you.

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